Please Go Away!
Last year, Noah was an angel in his preschool Christmas program. This year, he was a townsperson. Hm... ;) His class's special song (which he practiced often around our house) was: "Please go away! You cannot stay! You must seek shelter elsewhere!" These ladies know 4-yr-olds, because of course they ate it up. But just to prove he's not actually 14 yet, Noah beamed whenever he caught sight of me taking his picture. He's still my little angel.
Come Back!
And just in case I wasn't feeling enough love, Aaron piled it on. He walked on stage with his class, jingling bells with the best of them - for about 30seconds. Then he caught sight of me crouching near the front row, taking pictures, and totally lost it. Tears streaming, calling out for "Mommy! Mommy!" So I got to join his Christmas program, sitting on the edge of the stage with my sweet little mama's boy snuggled in my lap.
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
O Christmas Tree
For years, Josh and I have been picking out a Christmas tree at the ever-so-heartwarming Home Depot. And it has been fun. But as Noah pointed out, none of the trees were attached to the ground.So this year, we visited www.picktnproducts.org to find a local tree farm. Turns out, there aren't many advertising around here (the closest one appears to have sold out through Groupon). But we found one in NW Davidson County -- Eaton's Creek Farm -- featuring locally grown white pines, $30/tree.
The farm is gorgeous; set in wide rolling hills, you'd never guess you're technically in Nashville. What we didn't realize is that Eaton's Creek isn't really a Christmas tree farm. They happened to plant some pines 8-9 years ago, about 4 feet apart, and now they're a 25-foot-high, multi-acre mass of needles. The father and son who own the farm were standing in front of the forest with clippers, a chain saw, and some twine. Their first words: "Have you been here before? Well don't be intimidated by their height."
No kidding. I don't think there was anything under 25ft, and smashed together, their individual shapes were unintelligible. So we pointed and they cut. And cut. And cut some more. Until we had her down to a modest 13 feet. Josh tried to offer them $40, thinking a tree should probably cost more than $2/foot, but they wouldn't take it, saying "We just want you to be happy with it."
Then they tied her up and sent us home on the interstate, the Griswolds with our giant Charlie Brown tree.
Which didn't turn out too badly, if you're looking for character and authenticity. Lots of it. ;)
Monday, November 28, 2011
Friday, November 25, 2011
Honeymoon, year 12
Top 5 Questions about The Trip
Why did you go to London?
We had frequent flyer miles to use up, Josh wanted to relax (i.e. English-speaking, familiar), and I wanted Europe. London was the perfect match for all three.
Why did you go to London in November?
It's cheaper. Besides, I like cold and rainy. Really. It's in my blood.
What did you do with those two mini-men you're usually carrying around?
We left them at home. They're really good boys, you know. But just in case they got lonely, we also left them with sweet friends/sitters who sent emails and picture updates daily, proving our sons were enjoying themselves far more without us:
Why didn't you see ________?
We'd been there before. We love Bath/Windsor/Tower/Oxford/WarRms/Harrods/etc. Just not this time.
How was it?
Even better than I expected. We love date nights, but we learned from our weekend in Gatlinburg last Christmas that overnights away are so much more romantic. As much as we relish each day with our boys, it takes many hours for said boys to leave my mind long enough to focus on my husband. I was anxious beforehand, but the prayers and encouragement of friends really helped me get over that (as did the aforementioned emails from sitters) so Josh and I could just enjoy being a couple in an amazing city we love. I highly recommend it.
12 Highlights from The Trip
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| And a few more Britishisms: "Super Natural" OJ, the Texas Embassy (oh dear), and the Duracell bunny? |
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| Speaking of love...Just ask Josh to describe the many cars and dealers we saw around London (the above included). But make sure you allow some time for the answer. |
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I Am Limited
| LOVED the musical, btw. |
I've had a lot of conversations lately about how much there is to do. Child soldiers in Uganda. Sex trafficking in Asia. Clumsy missionary support. Marriages falling apart. There is an endless list, of course.
And the first reaction is often, We all need to do something about this! If we all ______ (adopted an orphan/called our congressman/mentored a teenager/wrote to our missionaries/gave more money) the problem would be solved!
No Good Deed Goes Unpunished
I bet you can already see flaws in this approach. If we all committed to all of the causes proposed to us, we'd 1) die of exhaustion, and 2) create new messes.
Freakonomics interviewed a Dutch mathematician who wrote a local university paper on population dynamics in 1975. A guy in China read it and created the one child policy. Scientists created the ultrasound machine to dramatically improve healthcare. The technology was distributed in China to enforce the one child policy but was instead used to identify a baby's gender. Twenty-five years later, Asia is missing 160 million women.
What really struck me was that each person along the way believed he was doing good. There was logic and evidence to support them. They weren't trying to create a glut of abortions or a massive gender imbalance. They were trying to save their country from starvation and poverty. They were trying to clean up messes.
"When Israel tried to be right with God on her own, pursuing her own self-interest, she didn't succeed. The chosen ones of God were those who let God pursue his interest in them, and as a result received his stamp of legitimacy" (Romans 11:7).
Which is not to say we should all become the Wicked Witch of the West ("no good deed will I do"). We are called to selflessness and courage and compassion where God is leading us to serve. But not to solve every problem, or to convince everyone to solve our pet problem. Paul talked about what his assignment was (Gentiles, celibacy) and wasn't (Jews, marriage), not to mention that Christ didn't spend 33 years rushing around trying to heal everyone.
What is This Feeling?
Which is really important to remember, because I know how easy it is for that first blush of passion to become something else when others don't share the same passion: criticism, judgment, bitterness, condescension, disillusionment, hopelessness, and withdrawal.
Brian Habig, referencing Acts 2 ("Life Together") and its description of the New Testament church, talks about how many use this passage to condemn their own communities. No matter your agenda, your community will disappoint if you expect everyone to follow the same agenda/leader/passion God has given you:
When one of you says, "I'm on Paul's side," and another says, "I'm for Apollos," aren't you being totally infantile? Who do you think Paul is, anyway? Or Apollos, for that matter? Servants, both of us—servants who waited on you as you gradually learned to entrust your lives to our mutual Master. We each carried out our servant assignment. I planted the seed, Apollos watered the plants, but God made you grow. It's not the one who plants or the one who waters who is at the center of this process but God, who makes things grow (1 Corinthians 3:4-8, emphasis added).Paul starts his letter to the Corinthians reminding them to be united in Christ and not divided by their allegiances to different teachers/agendas. Later in chapter 12 he reminds them that while united in Christ, they are gifted differently and called to serve in different ways. But what I really love is that he ultimately responds to their bickering (each claiming to have the most important agenda) by calling them to love each other and calling that more important than any of their agendas (1 Cor 13).
As Long As You're Mine
It is exciting and encouraging to see people ignited to help others, passionate about service, inspired by love for those in pain. I just pray that this passion helps each of us find our role in the "body of Christ" (the church), loving those at home and abroad, assuming the best about those around us, and celebrating our diverse callings in a very messy church/world.
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Having a Ball
Monday, November 14, 2011
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